According to your Bible it is better to always think of yourself as a sinner than to think that you are righteous (Rom 3:10-12) because you are a sinner and as long as you are flesh you will be. God can work with sinners (Matt 9:13). God hates pride. At the judgment those who will be weeping and gnashing their teeth (Matt 8:12) are those who became self righteous by having respect of persons, they think they are better than others. These are those who refused to humble themselves (Rom 2:1-6). They will be weeping because they will be humbled at their resurrection (Matt 7:21-23). They will not be allowed inside the gates of the city of God (1 Cor 6:9). They were so full of pride that no one could tell them different (Rev 3:14-18). These were not the innocent children of God, these are those who professed to know God but did not live by every word of God (love). They quenched the Holy Spirit of love and leaned on their own carnal mind (Pr 3:5). They did not love God’s children as themselves (1 Thes 5:19).
*Rom 13:10 Love worketh no ill to his neighbour: therefore love is the fulfilling of the law.
*Pro 10:30 The righteous shall never be removed: but the wicked shall not inhabit the earth.
Those who are self righteous will be placed in outer darkness which is on another planet far from the new earth in the new heavens (Isa 65:17). God will do no ill to his children by throwing them in a fire. Those who have harmed any of God’s children during earth school (Matt 5:22) will receive an everlasting punishment being placed far from the city of love in God’s world for eternity (Rev 21:13-14).
*Matt 25:46 And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal.
The righteous into life eternal are those in the first resurrection (Rev 20:5-6) these are the wise virgins, that allowed God’s mind of love to rule them, they are the bride of Christ and as Christ they did no ill to any of God’s children.
*Rom 5:21 That as sin hath reigned unto death, even so (might) grace reign through righteousness unto eternal life by Jesus Christ our Lord.
The word (might) is not in the original Greek all will receive the gift of eternal life. Christ’s sacrifice frees everyone made in the image of God from the belief (bondage) of an eternal death (Heb 2:14-15). God controls everything; man does not direct his steps (Luke 8:38-39). God knows our hearts because he made them. God has all power to direct some for honor and some for dishonor.
We are not our own (1 Cor 6:19). God is the potter we are the clay. We do not have freedom of choice if we did all of us would of chose to be born under better circumstances. And we would not have put enemies in our own house.
*1 John 4:20 If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar: for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he love God whom he hath not seen?
The only freedom of choice that we can do on our own power is to love our neighbor as ourselves as if we were them, who we can see. We must not judge others with our carnal mind we must judge them with God’s mind because we are just like them, flesh. How you treat any child of God is how you would treat God because they are gods in the making (Ps 82:6). God did not send peace but a sword (Matt 10:34-36) to teach the knowledge of good and evil which is a requirement for mankind to become a God. Each person’s eternal placement is being determined by their love for others. Everything that happens during Satan’s world is for each child of God’s eternal destiny in his world.
*Matt 25:40 And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.
*Eph 4:31-32 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice: And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.
All will be forgiven because God created evil (Isa 45:7) to teach the knowledge of good and evil, it is so that none will turn against him when immortal like Satan and a third of the angels did. God tests our hearts for his love. How? He puts us around enemies to see how we handle it. Do you forgive? (Heb 5:14), (Job 36:22). We all will learn obedience by the things that we suffer, as Christ did so will we (Eccl 7:8), (Isa 58:6-7), (Luke 10:29-37). Overcome evil with good.